World Vision Australia

Monique Fraser

Youth Ambassador for New South Wales and ACT

“The people there [Ethiopia] aren’t all that different, so why do we deserve to live in luxury while they are suffering every day?”

Monique is 17 and currently finishing high school. Her ideas of fairness and justice were first challenged when she went to Indonesia at age 13 and saw people living “very differently” from what she was used to.

The most memorable part of the trip for Monique was seeing Burtukan put on her pretend coffee ceremony (Cafe Share). “Rather than her recreating reality, she put herself in this wonderful situation where she had enough food and coffee for everyone,” she says.

Monique's 40 Hour Famine diary

  • We're not so different after all...

    Monique and Yared.

    Arriving in Ethiopia was such a huge contrast to Sydney. But despite the sheer physical differences between Australia and Ethiopia, there was one thing I found that was just so similar - the people.

    You'd expect that the country and lifestyle differences between Australia and Ethiopia would cause the people in each country to be completely different from one another. But despite the obvious differences, like language, physicality and customs, something that truly astounded me was the incredible number of similarities between us!

    We visited a girl called Burtukan (you’ve probably seen the 40 Hour Famine video about her) and her family welcomed us into their home. We heard all about Burtukan’s life - her chores, her mother, her siblings, her home. Learning how different her life is to people’s here was really quite confronting. But then we were taken outside, and Burtukan began playing with us.

    While we were playing this game, which involved Burtukan "making coffee" and serving pretend food and drink to her friends, we saw a different side to her. 

    When I was younger I remember playing games similar to what she was doing! We’d set up a family and a kitchen and go about serving everyone make-believe food. 

    So now, rather than being a child living in poverty, I started to see Burtukan as simply a child. Here she was, putting all the worries of her life out of her mind and just becoming fully immersed in this game, where she had enough food and drink for all of her friends. Her smile was absolutely incredible! She found so much joy in playing her game that if anyone saw her out of context, they'd have no idea of the circumstances she was living in.

    But it wasn’t just children like Burtukan who were so similar to Australians here, it was the same for so many people we met. One of the World Vision staff members who were looking after us there reminded me of my uncle so much! He had the same sense of humour and always loved making jokes and just having a good chat.

    So it became very clear that we all have much more in common than some people think. Our shared humanity is what binds us. Everyone from the children to the adults I met, despite how different their lives were, had the same hopes and dreams for a better life.

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  • The distance between Sydney and Ethiopia

    Monique plays with Burtukan, who shares one bed with her entire family.

    Looking back at our trip it totally doesn’t feel like it was five months ago! 

    Everything about it still seems so real, and even now there are still things that I’m trying to process from what we saw and learnt. 

    One of the key things that hit me about Ethiopia was just how different it was to Australia, yet at the same time it could also be so similar.

    When we first got there we were thrown into the big bustling city and went driving through this place called Merkato, which is the largest open air market in Africa. There were animals walking around in the middle of the streets, people chasing our car and everywhere we went people were yelling out "FERENJI" to us which means "foreigner". 

    Though those first few hours in Addis Ababa were seriously crazy, once we went out into the rural parts of the country our experience totally changed. People weren’t in a hurry to get anywhere, they would happily stop and chat to us. 

    But it wasn’t only the people that changed, the whole environment was totally different. Rather than having tall buildings, cars and tarred roads there was hardly anything. Almost everything was stained with this earth brown colour, which was the colour of the ground as far as we could see. There were no tarred roads, no tall buildings and there were all these animals just casually strolling down the street. 

    The sheer difference from Sydney to Addis was one thing to think about, but then being taken out to rural Ethiopia, Wukro, was something totally different all together. Staying in a "hotel" with no actual toilet in my room and water only delivered every few days off the back of a donkey’s cart was something that took a bit of adjusting to. 

    At first we were all a little taken aback by the...primitive living conditions, but then after having the opportunity to go and meet with some of the local people we all just managed to take it in our stride. It became a bit of a "When in Africa!" kind of thing. 

    Once we had been out and met a number of people in the local community we realised just how blessed we were to even be staying in a place like we were. We were visiting families like Burtukan’s where they had four people staying in one bed. And this wasn’t even what the average Australian would consider as a bed. I’m talking compressed mud, covered with some animal skins. And all they had for a bathroom was just a walled off area with a squat toilet – that they shared with their whole village... That really put a stop to our complaints.

    I had such an incredible time in Ethiopia, and I would definitely go back in the blink of an eye. The absolute best thing that I found was the people; they had such a different outlook on life to most Australians. They were some of the most joyous, loving and caring people I have ever met. Even despite the fact that they were living with what you or I may consider as nothing. 

    What we saw was heartbreaking, but also empowering, and it spurred us on to help people like these.

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